SILVERWARE

The silverware used at a formal table setting should be sterling silver flatware if possible.  It is not necessary that all the sterling silver match, although all forks or all spoons should be of the same pattern.  Dessert sterling silver flatware, which is not brought to the table but is brought in with the desert plates, need not match the dinner flatware.  Knives and forks should match.

INDIVIDUAL PLACE SETTINGS

The distance between places at the table set must never be so short that guests have no elbow room.  About two feet from plate center to plate center is ideal.  If the chairs have narrow and low backs, people can sit much closer together.  The service plates are first put around the table at equal distances.  The sterling silver flatware is placed in the order of its use, with the implements to be used first farthest from the plate.  The salad fork is placed next to the left of the plate, then the meat fork.  Just to the right of the plate is the salad knife and on the outside is the meat knife.  The cutting edge of each toward the plate.  Outside the knives are the soup spoon.  Dessert spoons and forks are brought in on the dessert plate just before dessert is served.

If bread or rolls are to be served, a butter plate should be used.  The butter plate is located above the forks at the left of the place setting.   The butter knife is laid across it, slightly diagonally from upper left to lower right, with the sharper edge of the blade toward the edge of the table.

GLASSWARE

The wineglasses chosen for the formal table setting depend upon the menu, but their table setting arrangement is according to size, so that little ones are not hidden behind large ones.  Place them directly above the knives in a straight row slanting downward from the upper left.  Generally one or two wines are served, so a water goblet and one (or two) wineglasses are all that are necessary.  If wine is not served at all, iced-tea glasses or simply tumblers for water are used.

If you plan to serve coffee with the meal, the cup and saucer go to the right of the setting, with the coffee spoon on the right side of the saucer.  Although it is far nicer to serve coffee separately with dessert at end of the meal.

Remember that whether you are using fine china or paper plates; sterling or copsticks; these are rules are for your guests’ comfort and enjoyment.

GOREDEAN

FORMAL DINNER SERVICE – SERVED

The one rule for a formal table is for everything to be geometrically spaced: the centerpiece at the exact center; the place settings at equal distances; and the utensils balanced. Beyond these placements, you can vary flower arrangements and decorations as you like.

The placement of utensils is guided by the menu, the idea being that you use utensils in an “outside in” order. For the illustrated place setting here, the order of the menu is: Appetizer: Shellfish, First Course: Soup or fruit,  Fish Course, Entrée, &  Salad

1. Service Plate: This large plate, also called a charger, serves as an underplate for the plate holding the first course, which will be brought to the table. When the first course is cleared, the service plate remains until the plate holding the entrée is served, at which point the two plates are exchanged. The charger may serve as the underplate for several courses which precede the entrée.
2. Butter plate: The small butter plate is placed above the forks at the left of the place setting.
3. Dinner fork: The largest of the forks, also called the place fork, it is placed on the left of the plate. Other smaller forks for other courses are arranged to the left or right of the dinner fork, according to when they will be used.
4. Fish fork: If there is a fish course, this small fork is placed farthest to the left of the dinner fork because it is the first fork used.
5. Salad fork: If salad is served after the entrée, the small salad fork is placed to the right of the dinner fork, next to the plate. If the salad is to be served first, and fish second, then the forks would be arranged (left to right): salad fork, fish fork, dinner fork.
6. Dinner knife: The large dinner knife is placed to the right of the dinner plate.
7. Fish knife: The specially shaped fish knife goes to the right of the dinner knife.
8. Salad knife: (Note: there is no salad knife in the illustration.) If used, according to the above menu, it would be placed to the left of the dinner knife, next to the dinner plate. If the salad is to be served first, and fish second, then the knives would be arranged (left to right):dinner knife, fish knife, salad knife.
9. Soup spoon or fruit spoon: If soup or fruit is served as a first course, then the accompanying spoon goes to the right of the knives.
10. Oyster fork: If shellfish are to be served, the oyster fork is set to the right of the spoons. Note: It is the only fork ever placed on the right of the plate.
11. Butter knife: This small spreader is paced diagonally on top of the butter plate, handle on the right and blade down.
12. Glasses: These can number up to five and are placed so that the smaller ones are in front. The water goblet (la) is placed directly above the knives. Just to the right goes a champagne flute (lb); In front of these are placed a red (lc) and/or white (ld) wine glass and a sherry glass (le)
13. Napkin: The napkin is placed on top of the charger (if one is used) or in the space for the plate.

*Knife blades are always placed with the cutting edge toward the plate. No more than three of any implement is ever placed on the table, except when an oyster fork is used in addition to three other forks. If more than three courses are served before dessert, then the utensil for the fourth course is brought in with the food; likewise the salad fork and knife may be brought in when the salad course is served. Dessert spoons and forks are brought in on the dessert plate just before dessert is served.

Fete for Gore Vidal

November 16 · Gore Dean

PHOTOS BY PAUL SIMKIN

THE PARTY: A powerhouse cocktail soirée to celebrate the release of Gore Vidal’s memoir Point to Point Navigation. Half-sister Nina Gore Auchincloss Straight and cousin Deborah Gore Dean hosted the “welcome home” aff air for the former hometown boy, who discusses his unique Washington upbringing in the book.
THE SCENE: Gore Vidal held court amid friends and admirers who included Polly Kraft, Liz Stevens, Kevin Chaff ee, Susan Eisenhower, Walter Isaacson, Chris and Kathleen Matthews and Jack and Mary Margaret Valenti. Many reminisced about stays with Vidal at his Ravello, Italy villa – John Dickerson spent part of his honeymoon there with his wife, Anne.
THE GUESTS: Christopher Hitchens, Bill and Janet Langhart Cohen, Jane Hitchcock and Tandy and Wytt Dickerson.

	Carol Schwartz, Judy Bachrach and Ruth Bachrach

Monika von Eichel and Pamela Aparicio	Deborah Gore Dean, Gore Vidal and Nina Gore Auchincloss Straight

Jamie Pawlik and Deborah Gore Dean	Christopher Hitchens

Gerald Rafshoon and Janet Langhart Cohen	Kathleen and Chris Matthews with Claire Shipman

Walter Isaacson, John Dickerson, Gerald Rafshoon and Jack Valenti	Spider Pawlik