A friend of mine told me something shocking recently about his cousin's sister (I call her ABC), which are in their late teens. ABC itself is damaged during the eight years out of the blue (ever since she was 12 years old ..) – she has no trouble or problems that cause her to do so. When asked, says ABC (which is a very honest girl) she does not know why she does it. Doctors said she had no mental illness, but gave her treatment – ABC still has not changed / improved. ABC has developed a sense of isolation / loneliness and hate for people (from 3 years and counting) – she does not like up close or intimate conversations between friends / family. She is very independent, but have developed self-esteem problems. The strange thing is, ABC hates himself e G. It is obvious through her own Haring actions that she does not love herself, she also puts down, embarrasses himself, calls himself ugly and undesirable. . But she also shows the strong feelings of respect and love for himself e G. By being confident in some situations where people can try to take advantage of her, she stands up to a bully and not be "used and abused" by others. Now recently I contacted a Sheikh to deal with ABC Ruqyah. The sheikh replied and gave their details, but ABC refused to do so. ABC said "I do not heal. I love to hurt myself, I love to feel worthless, because this is who I am. I wish I never was born and I wish that I die soon." So now me & my friend are in a stressful situation, not knowing what to do. I spoke to ABC and managed to break its shell – she opened up to me about all his problems. She revealed that she was raped by her cousin at age 8, when she was on holiday abroad with his family. She also said she does not feel traumatized by it anymore, but she hates business, romance and men in particular, and do not want to marry because she feels "worthless for being married to" and also believe that men are unfair and judgmental these days , and expect "perfection". She says she has scars all over her body and that not even a single area of her is beautiful. I disagree – and told her that there are many good men out there who do not care about looks. I told her to stop hurting himself, how it is against Islam and how it will only make things worse for her. But she did not take my advice, she believes all men are alike, and she refuses to meet someone or get to know them on a personal level e G. For marriage purposes. She has a strange attraction to inanimate objects – like quilts and dolls. The fact that the doctor could not diagnose her with some mental disease agents (according to Sheikh) that a Jinn has fallen in love with her and tries to stop her from ever getting married or be happy in any way. The sheikh explained to me in detail how the Jinn can manipulate thoughts and her self-harming acts, and said that she needs Ruqyah ASAP. The sheikh charging much less, less than 80 pounds, Ruqyah and treatment. But ABC refused to seek any help and want to suffer. She is a good Muslim and a very nice person, I can say that I made a new friend, and I will keep her close to my heart, always. What advice can I give to ABC to help her? How can I persuade her to come Ruqyah done? I am crying as I write this, I feel so hurt by all this. . . I have made Dua, I have given her advice. I tried to hug her but she said she hates human contact. I'm upset, so to see her like this. She is like a sister to me, I have spoken to her in almost a year. We phone / email a lot. My heart aches for her. . . Help dear Muslims. If you can not give any advice, can you please Dua for her? : '(((Noub: Take English classes, you obviously do not know how to read She has seen her doctor + psychiatrists / therapists and psychologists No one could help or give any solution how to get from my Q, since then … You have nothing good or productive to say? Doctors could not diagnose her with anything, not even autism. You obviously have to take Reading lessons as well. And the Sheikh is not a con, but you are one, because you are always creating lies. I do not need your stupid words get in my Q. Ghetto: She has told them all the details, they have not been able to help her, gave her antidepressants and therapy (behavior therapy), but this did not improve her .. Somehow she has given up and no longer want help Exactly how can I convince her that the issue is Sahhid.?. I have read the Qur'an for her and she read the Koran because she feels somewhat better after reading the Quran., yes, so I told her to do more of it. I have given her a list of Dua to read on a daily basis, then wake up and before going to sleep. She makes them. I have helped her to improve her diet, exercise (. I asked her for 1 month to go to the gym and it finally paid off – she started last week) So it's a bit of improvement, which I'm happy with but that is not enough .. (Peach: Her family. Do not know about rape. Only doctors and psychiatrists and they kept it secret. ABC believes that her parents will go crazy and die if she tells them. It's like a cultural tribe if a girl is raped, why why she kept it a secret for so many years __ Electric. It's worse thank you think I've seen the scars, they are hard I had to address some of the arms myself She did not even go to their doctor anymore … NOUB … Get the hell off my Q. If you think I "want attention "quit giving me the attention I did not ask anything, especially not from you Get a life, you and your lame replies go to hell Ghetto: She has had professional help for the last time Learn to read .. __ Mari. Sheikh asked about her condition if he would come or not, and she keeps refusing what can I do / say to convince her to accept his help .. After looking around, I learned – Ask her if she will listen to you recite the Quran recite Ayat al khusri and the last three chapters of the Quran, reciting them with your heart in front of her .. Ask her how she feels .. If she is willing to change his mind? I would gladly pay her rapist cousin to visit and introduce the bastard me a hammer. "if psychiatrists do not know about rape, they are missing a rather large piece of the puzzle." It is very true .. I do not know what to tell you sister .. I just hope she meets someone nice in the end .. "tell her parents. Her cousin can not get away with this." I agree.
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So my blankets must be washed, and I do not know what im doing. I have these three very thin blankets that were on my mattress and a pair of pillowcases. The blankets are pretty big though. Is that too much of a washing machine? I've flooded a washing machine once before because I did not know what I did, so hopefully you can help. From what I can say … A couple of tips. First, wash them separately. Second, fill the washer with soap and water first so that the detergent is mixed thoroughly with water before feeding in blankets. Third, use enough detergent for full capacity load. Turn the machine on a faster agitation cycle than just regular, enter the fabric evenly around the center post of the canvass. It is not to overload the drum with the blanket that unevely out who will throw the machine out of balance when it goes into spin cycle. I mostly put my machine on a double rinse cycle to make certain all the soap is rinsed out great things. Dry blankets also so that they have sufficient air flow to completely dry them. I like to use either a cup of vinegar in the rinse water softeners or dryer sheets in the dryer so the blankets come out static free and comfortable.
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I've been quilting for years, and started long arm quilting 4 years ago. Last summer I won 2 second place ribbon at Iowa State Fair, and 6 quilts that I long armed placed at the State Fair. How would I go about getting my work published in quilting magazines or books? Thanks for your help in advance. Well, I have your answer here. Congratulations on your winnings. For Quilters Newsletter, McCall Quilting and Quick Quilts are the guidelines described here: As far as other newspapers and books, I would check out the websites of the publishers. C & T Publishing comes to mind.